Back to the Apple comparison. The main design guy there Johnny Ives, designed pretty much everything since the original jelly candy iMacs, quit and now just consults. This has resulted in the M1 Max and Pro 16" Macbooks being slightly thicker than the i9 2019 Macbook Pros, and I couldn't be happier about that! No doubt the original iPhones were a great design but when the antenna is sacrificed to aesthetic, it's a shit show.
There's a trade off, some of it's just personal taste. but sometimes it's down to bad design, plug ins with huge blank spaces in them, or not enough room, tiny switches or faders, that's bigger to me than flat VS skeuomorphic.