Fair enough.el-bo (formerly ebow) wrote:Actually, this thread was an attack of sorts. He came here to gather support and sympathy so he could feel justified in his disappointment at how others have let him down. That he bolted the minute it looked like people weren't going to be enablers for his sense of entitlement, is just another symptom of the underlying problemhibidy wrote:Likely, since the very first post was an attack, he was smart enough to realize there was no reason to continue and just left.
There is good advice given over the last few pages, but maybe that's just too much effort
It has been discussed at great length on this forum, how difficult it is to get noticed amidst such a huge amount of collective musical noise. So when someone gets an opportunity to gather some kind of momentum, it is quite understandable for people to get upset when that person aint prepared to put in the necessary legwork to take advantage of that chance
I don't think it will help him to confirm his being some kind of victim
I won a pretty big competition, but no real promotion done?
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- KVRAF
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- KVRAF
- 16977 posts since 23 Jun, 2010 from north of London ON
Still, should have been promoted by the record company itself.debra1rlo wrote:I congratulated him in my post if you actually read it. But dude is expecting promotion from a record company when the actual promotion was the contest that took place, do you not understand that?hibidy wrote:Maybe some of it was spot on, but mostly it was just a fresh meat thing.goldenanalog wrote:I dunno - IMU(seless)O, some of the advice given to him here is spot-on; those of us that have been into music for a while know all too well that success is usually a combo of working obsessively and lottery-winner-level luck, and even then, a music career can 'still' be short-lived (fashion is the rule!)--- and the successful thing itself might even drive you crazy (or kill you)...hibidy wrote:Likely, since the very first post was an attack, he was smart enough to realize there was no reason to continue and just left.
I'm not saying the OP wasn't w/o flaw, I'm just saying when the very first post is someone taking out their bad day on the guy (and the flood that followed)
So he wanted to vent, I don't think it was "bitching" as much as it's a forum, when you have something that is on your mind you POST. Seems like a difficult concept to a few people. (who think that they own everything AND are supported as such)
Unless, of course, it was all in-house(?)
Barry
If a billion people believe a stupid thing it is still a stupid thing
If a billion people believe a stupid thing it is still a stupid thing
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was under the assumption the contest was promotion by the record company. it is the contest that generates the buzz, not (necessarily) the winner. seems like if the artist had heard it and was excited enough about it to think it would help the original song, perhaps they would have reached out to our remixer already. that IS a possibility ya knowtrimph1 wrote:Still, should have been promoted by the record company itself.debra1rlo wrote:I congratulated him in my post if you actually read it. But dude is expecting promotion from a record company when the actual promotion was the contest that took place, do you not understand that?hibidy wrote:Maybe some of it was spot on, but mostly it was just a fresh meat thing.goldenanalog wrote:I dunno - IMU(seless)O, some of the advice given to him here is spot-on; those of us that have been into music for a while know all too well that success is usually a combo of working obsessively and lottery-winner-level luck, and even then, a music career can 'still' be short-lived (fashion is the rule!)--- and the successful thing itself might even drive you crazy (or kill you)...hibidy wrote:Likely, since the very first post was an attack, he was smart enough to realize there was no reason to continue and just left.
I'm not saying the OP wasn't w/o flaw, I'm just saying when the very first post is someone taking out their bad day on the guy (and the flood that followed)
So he wanted to vent, I don't think it was "bitching" as much as it's a forum, when you have something that is on your mind you POST. Seems like a difficult concept to a few people. (who think that they own everything AND are supported as such)![]()
Unless, of course, it was all in-house(?)
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- 16977 posts since 23 Jun, 2010 from north of London ON
Aaahhh...yes. Forgot that bit...debra1rlo wrote:was under the assumption the contest was promotion by the record company. it is the contest that generates the buzz, not (necessarily) the winner. seems like if the artist had heard it and was excited enough about it to think it would help the original song, perhaps they would have reached out to our remixer already. that IS a possibility ya knowtrimph1 wrote:Still, should have been promoted by the record company itself.debra1rlo wrote:I congratulated him in my post if you actually read it. But dude is expecting promotion from a record company when the actual promotion was the contest that took place, do you not understand that?hibidy wrote:Maybe some of it was spot on, but mostly it was just a fresh meat thing.goldenanalog wrote:I dunno - IMU(seless)O, some of the advice given to him here is spot-on; those of us that have been into music for a while know all too well that success is usually a combo of working obsessively and lottery-winner-level luck, and even then, a music career can 'still' be short-lived (fashion is the rule!)--- and the successful thing itself might even drive you crazy (or kill you)...hibidy wrote:Likely, since the very first post was an attack, he was smart enough to realize there was no reason to continue and just left.
I'm not saying the OP wasn't w/o flaw, I'm just saying when the very first post is someone taking out their bad day on the guy (and the flood that followed)
So he wanted to vent, I don't think it was "bitching" as much as it's a forum, when you have something that is on your mind you POST. Seems like a difficult concept to a few people. (who think that they own everything AND are supported as such)![]()
Unless, of course, it was all in-house(?)
Barry
If a billion people believe a stupid thing it is still a stupid thing
If a billion people believe a stupid thing it is still a stupid thing
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- 38041 posts since 6 Sep, 2003 from Downeast Maine
where was the attack again? Seriously, if you're looking to go in that direction your skin better be thick enough to take deb's words for what they were, the truth and good advice, or you're gonna have a rough ride. 
The highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another's world. It requires profound, purpose‐larger‐than‐the‐self kind of understanding.
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- KVRAF
- 4727 posts since 25 Mar, 2006 from The city by the bay
Oh, Peachey! Just peachy...here we're trying to help out and you appear to have dumped us for a no doubt younger, prettier forum...goldenanalog wrote:Where's the OP?
Something be amiss, methinks
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- 16872 posts since 13 Oct, 2009
Lovely.rp314 wrote:The important thing to remember is that those who work really, really hard at it always end up being rewarded for it.

