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boriskarloff · Post by **boriskarloff** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 5:51 pm

I'm desperate

I love my girlfriend but some of their habits makes me angry. Every time I want to sit in front of my PC to make some music my girlfriend comes to our bedroom and start to complain about my "nonsense sitting in front of PC" She loves to helping animals and fights against animal cruelty and she don't understand that computers are part of my life (my half job is graphic designer). So everything computer related is stupid for her. I don't think my music sucks but she told me that this is nonsense cause it never brings me any money (It's just a hobby).

https://m.soundcloud.com/euphonia1

I will be happy if you can tell me some advice or message for her...

Thanks

Mario

Totolitoto · Post by **Totolitoto** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 5:55 pm

Tell her it's part of what you are
If she loves you she'll get it, if she doesn't, ditch her!

Doug1978 · Post by **Doug1978** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 5:56 pm

Dump her and get yourself a sex robot.

Ps, your music is alright.

thecontrolcentre · Post by **thecontrolcentre** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 5:59 pm

Doesn't sound like that's gonna work out in the end. Plenty music loving fish in the sea

Doug1978 · Post by **Doug1978** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:02 pm

Plus this is just the start of a slippery slope Mario.
First she'll moan about your music, next your graphic design job, next...

Do yourself a favour and get someone compatible instead (like a sex robot).

nineofkings · Post by **nineofkings** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:06 pm

Date musicians

Actually, though, that sounds pretty rough. Is fighting animal cruelty part of her income, like in a nonprofit? If not, I'd think she'd understand what it's like to have a passion separately from money.

chk071 · Post by **chk071** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:15 pm

I'm fighting against animal cruelty too. They can be so cruel sometimes.

DJ Warmonger · Post by **DJ Warmonger** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:19 pm

Tell her she's a girl and you're a boy, that's just the way it is

Still, you'd better assist your GF in bedroom rather than sit in front of PC

. Seriously, it's not polite to sit in front of PC when someone's around in home and needs attention.

Tet-64 · Post by **Tet-64** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:23 pm

Is she Amish? Seriously even if it is just a hobby, you need your own passion in life outside of any relationship

Sounds maybe like something else is going on here

jethrobull · Post by **jethrobull** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:24 pm

Although she is probably a lovely person and you love her, she is being very selfish. As others have said, if she loves you then she should accept your hobbies and interests. Weather your making money or she doesn't like your music is completely irrelevant.

mladi · Post by **mladi** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:27 pm

So she earn money with her fight against animal cruelty? I understand you right? And even if, does only count that you can make money out of your music making or isn't it more important that you are happy?

recursive one · Post by **recursive one** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:28 pm

boriskarloff wrote:I she told me that this is nonsense cause it never brings me any money (It's just a hobby).

Sorry to say that, but it isn't especially good sign.

And your music doesn't suck at all.

Nielzie · Post by **Nielzie** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:36 pm

Slap her on the butt cheeks and then show her who's the daddy

boriskarloff · Post by **boriskarloff** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:38 pm

nineofkings wrote:Is fighting animal cruelty part of her income, like in a nonprofit?

No. We have four animals (+ 9 yr old girl) in our 2 rooms flat. I love our french bulldog, but cat, rabbit and a rat are not my "loved ones". But every time she asks me I go and clean their cages if I don't want to. Few times she sad to me: "You can never compare sitting in front of PC with loving and care of a living (animal) soul"

boriskarloff · Post by **boriskarloff** » Mon Dec 26, 2016 6:40 pm

DJ Warmonger wrote:Still, you'd better assist your GF in bedroom rather than sit in front of PC

Come on, we're five years together and sex is on the last place she is thinking of...

My girlfriend hates my music making