Here's the thing...all music is folk music (and all recorded music after the Edison cylinder is electronic music). Looking at the charts this week, Drake - Bruno Mars - Ed Sheeran - Rihanna - Halsey - Migos - whether you like it or not, each is engaging in "natural expressive behaviours and processes in... daily human life." Yes, they're doing it in public with teams of professionals and high budgets - but it is a genuine expression of present humanity within an insane, technologized, smart-but-not-wise overconsumptive global culture continually skirting the edge of irreversible disaster.
Not every consumer is making their own music, but pretty much anyone can be the DJ of their own life. And as KVR shows, there are plenty of us making our own music too with whatever tools are available. I don't see a difference between this and people gathering around a parlor piano in 1890, a sharecropper playing slide guitar on a porch in the 1925, someone wailing on a saxophone in Greenwich Village in the 1960s', or kids using consumer electronic gear to invent hip-hop in the '70s. It's using the technology of the day to meet one's expressive, social, and cultural needs.
When you say things like "Musics becomes defined by the processes and sounds resulting of those contexts. Everything else is put down, repressed, or deemed as irrelevant of study..." you are ignoring the work of prominent musicologists like Susan McClary who focus on how musical practice encodes, reinforces, or challenges notions of sexuality and power relations.
Not to mention the contributions of outstanding practitioners like Brian Eno - who has both created an incredible body of sonic work - and discussed at great length over the past 45+ years the social, cultural, sexual, economic, philosophical, and technological dimensions of musical practice in our time. From Eno's Foreword to Mark Prendergast's "The Ambient Century" (Bloomsbury, 2003):
"From a classical perspective the major revolutions in music have been
described as changes in the ways composers put notes, chords and instruments
together. Such a composition-centred view of musical history leaves out a lot
of other types of musical evolution. It doesn’t tell you very much about, for
example, rock and roll. I recall a conversation I had in the early 70s with a
classical composer, who said to me, ‘Of course, everything in rock music had
happened in classical music before 1832.’ ‘But it doesn’t account for Elvis,’ I
protested. ‘Well,’ he replied, ‘that wasn’t a musical revolution, but a social
one.’
One of the many trajectories along which music develops is its social
dimension. New forms of music can be new in many different ways, and
one of them is what role they are intended to play in a listener’s life, or, to put it
another way, what use the listener will put them to. The difference between
sitting quietly in a chair and only coughing in the spaces between movements,
and screaming your head off in a stadium full of hysterical young girls is a real
difference. The difference between apprehending the compositional subtleties
of a Bach fugue and filling your apartment with Heavy Metal is a real difference.
These differences have to do with what social activity the music addresses, what
music is thought to be for.
Until recently music was inseparable from the space in which it was
performed - including the social space. One very strong movement in the
late-nineteenth and twentieth centuries was towards music as an immersive,
environmental experience. You see this in Mahler, Debussy, Satie, Varese and
then in Cage, La Monte Young and the Modernists. It’s a drift away from
narrative and towards landscape, from performed event to sonic space.
But it was recording which really liberated music from the moment of
performance and from the performers themselves. Records meant that music
could be carried and collected and listened to over and over. They allowed
people to take the music home, and to choose when and where and how they
would use it.
Recording and electronics also allowed composers to work with impossible
perspectives and relationships. Producers and musicians discovered that tiny
sounds could be made huge, and huge ones compacted. And, using echoes and
reverberations, those sounds could seem to be located in a virtual space which
was entirely imaginary. The act of making music becomes the art of creating."
And regarding "Telling someone that "Creep" is strumming a guitar I-III-IV-bIV is nothing..." uhm, tell that to Lana del Rey.