ClockWOrK has a lot of these functions but I'm wondering what else is out there. Hopefully freeware but will spend money if I have to
EDIT: I found this 5 minutes after making this post:
http://tubeohm.com/TubeOhm/Stepper_XL.html
Looks like it has everything I want!
EDIT: It has almost everything... It's missing a "skip step" flag for each step, and shifting the sequence forwards and backwards, plus a couple of other wacky ideas I want
Mods, feel free to delete this post, or we can talk about stepsequencer solutions or something? *shrug*

