Well, first, there was some amount of humor in my post. Second, my girlfriend is a nurse, she has worked in pediatric oncology. She wasn't offended by my post. Maybe because when you work in an area as unbelievably difficult and painful as pediatric oncology you have to develop a sense of humor and balance. Third, when I thought of the hardest jobs I could imagine, being a prostitute popped into my head right away. It was simply a list of difficult jobs, there was no intention to imply any relationship or comparison between the jobs listed.Funkasizer wrote:As to the suggestion to give hookers a discount, I have nothing against their profession, but I think it is bad taste to put them on the same pedestal as professionals who work with disabled children.
zebra academic pricing
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- KVRAF
- 2844 posts since 1 Jan, 2003
- KVRAF
- 11330 posts since 18 Aug, 2007 from NYC
Is that your personal experience??Funkasizer wrote:Not only that, they are also avid Zebra users.unangular wrote:Hookers also work with disabled children. [?]Funkasizer wrote:...As to the suggestion to give hookers a discount, I have nothing against their profession, but I think it is bad taste to put them on the same pedestal as professionals who work with disabled children...
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- KVRAF
- 2844 posts since 1 Jan, 2003
Thank you elxicano. Very well said.elxicano wrote:+1Cordelia wrote:I applaud Urs' refusal to offer special academic discounts.
I think there should be special discounts for nurses, those who work with disabled children, sanitation engineers, and hookers. Those are some tough jobs.
@ Funkasizer... It's not about pedestals, it's about tough jobs that generally don't pay well (except SOME hookers do get paid serious money). Mostly, I'm sure the hookers were added for sense of humor.
I think the point is a simple one... There are many reasons to justify why any certain group deserves a discount so instead of putting one group on a pedestal and then discriminating against others, there is a discount available to all.
The more the discussion continues, the more it's evident that there's really nothing different in terms of personal circumstance than any other career or life choice. The bottom line is that there are some who make a ton of money and there are some who don't. That seems pretty much in line with the rest of the global population.
By the way... I come from a family of educators and I can go on and on about the low pay (as my parents and siblings work in the public sector), but providing service to the community at low wages is not limited to educators, nor do ALL educators earn low wages (which I believe is Urs' point) and usually discounts are not provided to the academic community out of sympathy but instead are provided by way of marketing. That said, I don't really see why the conversation continues, recounting the plight of certain educators when they are not alone in terms of struggling economically, nor should single experiences be used to generalize the view of all educators when clearly that's not the case as already demonstrated from multiple postings. I also don't believe it was an issue of generalizing educators as being well off, but instead a point offered as a counter to previous posting which was necessary for painting a truer picture that includes multiple circumstances affecting those in academics.
- KVRAF
- 37444 posts since 14 Sep, 2002 from In teh net
Many hookers work with disabled adults thoughunangular wrote:Hookers also work with disabled children. [?]Funkasizer wrote:...As to the suggestion to give hookers a discount, I have nothing against their profession, but I think it is bad taste to put them on the same pedestal as professionals who work with disabled children...
Personally (and I realise this is OT and the insertion of Hookers was somewhat tongue-in-cheek) I think it's high time the stigmatisation of the oldest profession was ditched - yes I do think it's on a par with any other profession and should not be seen as low status (doing so is part of what makes it dangerous and degrading)
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- KVRAF
- 2844 posts since 1 Jan, 2003
Funny, and true.aMUSEd wrote:Many hookers work with disabled adults though
I wrote something along these lines in my last post but was afraid it was too OT.aMUSED wrote: Personally (and I realise this is OT and the insertion of Hookers was somewhat tongue-in-cheek) I think it's high time the stigmatisation of the oldest profession was ditched - yes I do think it's on a par with any other profession and should not be seen as low status (doing so is part of what makes it dangerous and degrading)
I've got a dear sweet friend who was arrested last November for prostitution (massage parlor sting operation). She'll be spending the next eighteen months in Chowchilla State Prison. They've taken everything from her- her freedom, her house, her artwork. God, I'm angry about it.
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- KVRist
- 137 posts since 2 Feb, 2005 from Netherlands
AFAIK most hookers did not choose their profession, but were forced into it, either by 'lover boys' or via international criminal networks for the trafficking of human beings. Under such circumstances, stigmatization is inevitable.aMUSEd wrote:Many hookers work with disabled adults thoughunangular wrote:Hookers also work with disabled children. [?]Funkasizer wrote:...As to the suggestion to give hookers a discount, I have nothing against their profession, but I think it is bad taste to put them on the same pedestal as professionals who work with disabled children...
Personally (and I realise this is OT and the insertion of Hookers was somewhat tongue-in-cheek) I think it's high time the stigmatisation of the oldest profession was ditched - yes I do think it's on a par with any other profession and should not be seen as low status (doing so is part of what makes it dangerous and degrading)
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- KVRist
- 137 posts since 2 Feb, 2005 from Netherlands
Cordelia wrote:Thank you elxicano. Very well said.elxicano wrote:+1Cordelia wrote:I applaud Urs' refusal to offer special academic discounts.
I think there should be special discounts for nurses, those who work with disabled children, sanitation engineers, and hookers. Those are some tough jobs.
@ Funkasizer... It's not about pedestals, it's about tough jobs that generally don't pay well (except SOME hookers do get paid serious money). Mostly, I'm sure the hookers were added for sense of humor.
I think the point is a simple one... There are many reasons to justify why any certain group deserves a discount so instead of putting one group on a pedestal and then discriminating against others, there is a discount available to all.
The more the discussion continues, the more it's evident that there's really nothing different in terms of personal circumstance than any other career or life choice. The bottom line is that there are some who make a ton of money and there are some who don't. That seems pretty much in line with the rest of the global population.
By the way... I come from a family of educators and I can go on and on about the low pay (as my parents and siblings work in the public sector), but providing service to the community at low wages is not limited to educators, nor do ALL educators earn low wages (which I believe is Urs' point) and usually discounts are not provided to the academic community out of sympathy but instead are provided by way of marketing. That said, I don't really see why the conversation continues, recounting the plight of certain educators when they are not alone in terms of struggling economically, nor should single experiences be used to generalize the view of all educators when clearly that's not the case as already demonstrated from multiple postings. I also don't believe it was an issue of generalizing educators as being well off, but instead a point offered as a counter to previous posting which was necessary for painting a truer picture that includes multiple circumstances affecting those in academics.
Please keep in mind that I was just expressing my feelings of disappointment about some comments Urs made about academics. I think they are vexing, and wanted him to know that.
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- KVRAF
- 2844 posts since 1 Jan, 2003
That doesn't follow. You're saying prostitutes are victims, therefore stigmatization is inevitable? Being a victim inevitably leads to being stigmatized?Funkasizer wrote:AFAIK most hookers did not choose their profession, but were forced into it, either by 'lover boys' or via international criminal networks for the trafficking of human beings. Under such circumstances, stigmatization is inevitable.
While I don't have any statistics and don't know if your premise is true, I'd guess it's more likely that being stigmatized leads to being victimized.
My guess would also be that in the U.S., at least, most often it's poverty that leads to prostitution. Although I know quite a number of sex workers (dancers, pro doms, escorts, sex workers), and they all have chosen their profession. But then, I live near San Francisco and I don't live on the streets.
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- KVRist
- 137 posts since 2 Feb, 2005 from Netherlands
Cordelia wrote:That doesn't follow. You're saying prostitutes are victims, therefore stigmatization is inevitable? Being a victim inevitably leads to being stigmatized?Funkasizer wrote:AFAIK most hookers did not choose their profession, but were forced into it, either by 'lover boys' or via international criminal networks for the trafficking of human beings. Under such circumstances, stigmatization is inevitable.
While I don't have any statistics and don't know if your premise is true, I'd guess it's more likely that being stigmatized leads to being victimized.
My guess would also be that in the U.S., at least, most often it's poverty that leads to prostitution. Although I know quite a number of sex workers (dancers, pro doms, escorts, sex workers), and they all have chosen their profession. But then, I live near San Francisco and I don't live on the streets.
I am saying that the profession is inevitably stigmatized, not the people that are forced into it.
- KVRAF
- 37444 posts since 14 Sep, 2002 from In teh net
I don't blame you - that is outrageous.Cordelia wrote:Funny, and true.aMUSEd wrote:Many hookers work with disabled adults though
I wrote something along these lines in my last post but was afraid it was too OT.aMUSED wrote: Personally (and I realise this is OT and the insertion of Hookers was somewhat tongue-in-cheek) I think it's high time the stigmatisation of the oldest profession was ditched - yes I do think it's on a par with any other profession and should not be seen as low status (doing so is part of what makes it dangerous and degrading)
I've got a dear sweet friend who was arrested last November for prostitution (massage parlor sting operation). She'll be spending the next eighteen months in Chowchilla State Prison. They've taken everything from her- her freedom, her house, her artwork. God, I'm angry about it.
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- KVRian
- 595 posts since 3 Aug, 2006
sinzero wrote:what with spreading disease and what not, sheesh, get a girl/boyfriend.
have em tested first![]()
Joining a prossie ring is dangerous for a lot of reasons
WHAT? Damn, i posted on the wrong forum. This wasn't supposed to get outwhat forum is this?
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