One aspect of musical training that I find not being stressed enough is the rhythmic skill. I myself is particularly bad at this, and I desperately need to find a way to get it down.
I'm the vocalist of a band, and while my voice is OK'ish, I have a very bad sense of timing. I would enter at the wrong beats, especially ones that are upbeat, which I miss a lot. I often come in early or late, and go out too late to get the next word on time. I often sing the 16th where the 8th is expected (late by a 16th or something like that). When my tapping foot is in the air, everything goes fuzzy. I can only somewhat (still not very well) nail the timing at the exact time my foot hits the floor (the downbeat, that is).
I often lose my sense of where I am in a song -- especially at the break/instrumental part -- and then I get very nervous at getting back in at the right time, and miss the timing in the process. I lose sense of beats and bars easily.
To sum it up, I suck, totally. Yet I'm still there, as the front man, and I'm getting more and more depressed about it. Every time I'm going to perform I feel stressed, and when I miss it in the performance, I feel like hiding my face in the soil. I love performing, and I have to get this down. This has been a real mental hurdle for too long and I improve too slowly.
I heard of Jazz musician practicing beats on 2 and 4 or something like that. Not sure if something like that could help me. I wonder if anyone has any tips at all to practice this aspect of musicianship. Thanks!
