I don't see any actual obstacles to making two modes when installing a package: normal mode and custom mode.
I believe that they already exist, only you need to add options separately for all formats:
"- only 32 bits
- only 64 bit
- (default selection)
let it be both 32 and 64 bit (recommended) "
In my opinion, there is no need to make an installation for the uneducated.
Most of your plugins and programs are understandable only for specialists.
Of course, it is not necessary to complicate more than necessary.
The best way to uninstall unnecessary is not to install unnecessary.