Steve’s a year and a half old, healthy and strong cat, who happens to be my daughter’s best friend and he adores her, following her around everywhere. Did he feel like crap for a few weeks? Yup, but a week later he’s almost back to normal and just annoyed that he has to wear a cone. Next week, it’ll be like it never happened, except the bizarro haircut, which makes him seem like he’s wearing adorable fur boots.BONES wrote: Sat Dec 24, 2022 12:11 am Right, because your cat understands that the torture you put it through is for its own good. It's not, it's for very strong, but purely selfish motives. And, to be clear, it's the same standard I would apply to myself. As of last year, we have voluntary euthanasia laws, which I intend to take full advantage of at the appropriate time. I watched my parents' slow decay and I see absolutely no point in hanging on for no reason.
Now, two years ago we came home from a trip and our cat sitter forgot to refill the water. I estimated that she was without water for four days. (Don’t even ask, I’ve never forgiven the guy) Amelia was seizing when we got home and I quickly saw her dry water bowl and got her water. She drank for a solid half hour and bounced back in a day, but the damage was done and she was a 15 year old cat, which means her kidneys were already shot and that pushed her over the edge. I knew that keeping her alive was just torture, so we said our goodbyes. There was no way we were ready to let Steve go, and I don’t think Steve was ready to go either. Did it hurt to pay that money? Yes, oh yes, but coming home with a box of ashes would have hurt much more.


