I'm naturally dependent on others when it comes to interpersonal relationships, yes. But when it comes to buying tools and all other material things, I've been an adult since my early twenties. Of course, I was sometimes more dependent on external influences in my early years.ampetrosillo wrote: Tue Aug 26, 2025 12:38 pmYou overestimate yourself and the independence of your decisions. See, for instance, it's right there: your parents *taught* you how to control your shopping urges.Etienne1973 wrote: Mon Aug 25, 2025 7:43 pmAre we adults or not? Anyone who lets their purchasing decision be influenced by pure marketing rhetoric has only themselves to blame. Actually, my parents already taught me how to control my shopping urges.ampetrosillo wrote: Mon Aug 25, 2025 11:41 am...
Also, the market creates a need, and people end up buying stuff they don't necessarily need because the market self-propels itself. People don't necessarily think they need vintage emulations, but the mere fact that software houses shove them in your face and promise that your mixes will become warmer, fuller, better leads people at least to second-guess themselves. If only unconsciously.
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But I've learned from experience and am still learning to improve small projects, every day. Now, almost 52, I can say with conviction: I'm not a slave to the market. No reason for me to play the victim card.

